The me who has been healthy as a goat for so many years. I've taken it for granted. I'm having a very hard time wrapping my head around the word cancer. That this is ME we're talking about not somebody else, somebody else's life.
I'm trying very hard not to think about the what ifs. And I want to continue to do so, one step at a time. I'm also not terribly comfortable with writing about myself in this way, but I wanted to put up one more post and then let my very obliging sister-in-law guest-post on updates. I'm finding it exhausting to tell the same things over again to all the lovely people who "want to know" and even then, not everybody gets the same thing. After all, it was Jim and I listening to the surgeons this morning.
We came to Omaha this morning to have the consultation with the two surgeons who will be doing the surgery tomorrow around noon. The nasal surgeon is kind, efficient, patient and answered all our questions before we asked them. We wouldn't have needed to bring our list.
For the nuts and bolts of what is happening here, I have been diagnosed with one of two types of malignant nasal tumor. One is a tumor of the olfactory nerve. The other is not so easily explained. The tumor in the lower sinuses will be removed by going up through the nose. The upper sinuses will be accessed with an ear to ear incision, going through a hole made through the skull in my forehead.
(They don't shave heads anymore.)
The main things in any cancer surgery is to get all the cancer plus a certain amount of unharmed tissue to ensure a complete removal. There is a limited about of tissue to get in such a confined area, so the dura, between sinus and brain will be removed and be replaced with some of my own from another place. The bone that separated and seals the brain area and the sinus cavity has been destroyed by the tumor and will be replaced with mesh. The tumor is also right up against one eye and has destroyed some of the bone protecting the right eye in the area of the bridge of my nose, and if the hole in the bone is big enough it will also be strengthened with mesh. The main thing is to take enough out of me to get all the bad stuff and then reconstruct what needs to be done.
One things I didn't know is that the sinus cavity is not several open holes as I always imagines. There are little pockets in those sinus cavities. After this, however, I will have one big open area, which while it won't affect my quality of life, will affect how I take care of it.
Except I won't be able to smell anymore. That is over. I don't think I'll get fat now, eating isn't nearly as much fun.
So this is really a pretty big deal, more than I ever imagined. I will have a six hour surgery, following by 24 hours in ICU (this is normal), and then a hospital stay of 5 or so days. Then I will go home to recover. After an expected six weeks of surgical recovery time, I will have six weeks of radiation. Just to make sure, you know.
Of course, what knowledge we have now, is subject to anything new that might be found during the surgery. The nasal surgeon takes care of the lower, the neurosurgeon the upper, at the same tine. There is some good news. The tumor does not appear to have penetrated the brain or the eyes themselves. There is every expectation of a cure.
Despite all the risks involved in major surgery, and some fear as well, I will be glad to get this out of my head and start making progress to a new me.
After surgery: The tumor is called a neuroendocrine tumor. Surgery was 9 1/2 hours long.
January 7, 2021: They never did use any mesh. It wasn't needed in the eye area, and they used something from my head to replace the dura that separates brain from sinus.
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Anonymous said... Sounds like you are in good hands. We will be thinking of you. We appreciate your faith and postive outlook, grateful for a God that offers strength. Rod and Jenelle May 29, 2012 at 7:00 PM
Brenda said.. I will be thinking of you tomorrow. May 29, 2012 at 7:48 PM
Anonymous said.. Shelley, I am proud to be connected with your. And Jim. And your kids. And thankful that you are able to put into words some of your feelings. I hope you feel a boatload of love surrounding you all, because there is. And the greatest plus in the picture, come what may, is that you have a connection with Heaven, and that carries you where your determination and all our care cannot. Love Dodie May 29, 2012 at 7:54 PM
Anonymous said... Jim, Shelley and family...just a note to let you know that we will all be pulling for you here in Iowa! Will be thinking of you all. Dan, Kim, Kendra and Nicole May 29, 2012 at 8:09 PM
Darcie said... So sorry I haven't been on here more and sooner! Thinking of you during this time, and hope all goes as planned, and like you said, "On the road to a new you." Hugs from you blogging friend!!! May 29, 2021 8:26 PM
Dear Shelley, Jim and all, The miles seem endless!! Wish we could be closer, but you will be in our thoughts tomorrow!! Thanks for sharing your journey. Love you muchly!!! Gina and crew
Our thoughts with you...our care...Rod and Jenelle and boys May 29, 2012 at 11:12 PM
Grumpy and Dayka said...
Oh! My!! Word!!! Shelley! AND Jim! Sending POSITIVE thoughts to you and yours tomorrow and in the days that lie ahead!!Hang in there! Laurel and Loren May 29, 2012 at 11:16 PM
Mrs. Kleeb, You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope for a speedy recovery and for you to come out of all of the "c-word" free. My parents Bible study held a group prayer for you tonight. I know that the Lord will give you strength to get through this. "God won't every give you anything he doesn't think you can't handle. <3 Stay strong! Alex Van Pool May 29, 2012 at 11:25 PM
Anonymous said... Aw, my dear Shelley.....My heart is said thinking of you're facing but love and admire your attitude and straight forwardness. You are an amazing person and someone I consider one of my dearest friends!! You have a world of people pulling for you and your wonderful little family!! Love and hugs to you all!! Janet May 30, 2012 at 4:34 AM
The Chairman's Wife said.... Thank you for bravely telling usj what is happening. Thinking of you all keenly. Hope this can eventually just be a blip on the journey of life. Hugs from Wisconsin. May 30, 2012 at 8:20 AM
The J's said... Dear friend --Thinking of you today especially! Thanks for your post, thanks do Dorothy also. Looking forward to the days when this is all safely behind you, but in the meantime we're all pulling for you! Love, MJ May 30, 2012 at 10:12 AM
gkey said... My dear Shelleykins, Please know there are so many loving hugging praying hearts with you as you face this experience. love to all of you, May 30, 2012 at 10:32 AM
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